Questions All Blogger Need To Ask Part 4 The Bottom Line
The Bottom Line and Emotional Toll of a Bloggers’s Life
A few weeks ago I presented a checklist of 10 questions titled Questions All Bloggers Need To Ask. The next week we learned how to Define our Niche. Last week we tested the warers and Set Sail using our answers to define the direction and cost our blog should take as we start out. If you would like a quick review of what we worked on to date please follow the links above and read parts 1, 2, and 3 again. The rest of us will wait with our checklists, pencils and note paper while you catch up.
Questions All Bloggers Need To Ask Part 4 the Bottom Line and Emotional Toll of being a Blogger.Click To TweetFor this last part of the series I want to talk about a subject not talked about at all. This topic is bloggers experiences. I am referring to the toll blogging takes on you, your family, your job, and your life. Just like any endeavor you take on, blogging affects your direction of life as well as the lives of everyone around you. Read that again. Blogging affects your direction of life as well as the lives of everyone around you. There are consequences you must deal with that affects your relationships. How you allow these to play out and how in tune you are to them will decide how you grow as a blogger and person. These last questions will show you how many circumstances you never actually considered when you decided to start blogging. Things you weren’t prepared for before you started your journey. Things that are changing your daily life.
How you deal with these issues will strengthen and grow your personality as well as your blog. Being aware of the changes will help to keep you from experiencing burnout and failure. You aren’t going to find a definitive answer written anywhere to guide you in your direction. However you will understand what changes are taking place and you will be able to react in whatever way is best for YOU.
The remaining questions are:
3. How much do you know about the Internet? Your subject(s)? How much are you willing to learn? Are there any areas you DON’T want to be a part of?
Blogging affects your direction of life as well as the lives of everyone around you. This is a key question. In addition to finding content and publishing it there are thngs you have to become familiar with. Research, finding articles by others and finding out the unique way you wish to present your own response to these ideas isn’t something you just sit down and discuss. Deciding how your valuable idea and response is different than others and how it provides and answers a need of your readers can take time to develop. It is keep to developing a trust and bond with your readers.
4. Are you willing to spend the time it takes to achieve you daily/weekly/monthly/ goals? Can you put your Blog away to take time for yourself, your family, and the unexpected?
The time you set aside for your blog has to come from areas of your day that are now spent on other activities. By choosing this time you must be conscious of where it will come from and what if anything will suffer or thrive by this change.
7. Impact on you and your family. What choices will you make in completing your goals. What are the positive effects and adverse effects? Are you prepared to compromise?
Your days and time spent on your blog will be different at times and that is ok. The key is BALANCE. Make sure you set your priorities every day for that day. Your career, family, faith, and health are very important and each needs to be considered. Be aware that making changes are good responses. Your readers are people just like you. They will understand if you don’t post everyday. They will be following you because they identify with you!
8. What part of your goals need to be met for you to feel successful?
This final question is meant to let you know when you need to step back and take stock. Allow yourself to feel positive when you have accomplished a goal no matter how small. Your biggest critic will be yourself. Allow your successes to make you feel good about the time and energy you spend. It is the little things that when added together create the bigger successes you achieve.
My goal in this series is to get bloggers to realize the trials and tribulations you face are not a burden, nor are they unique to just you. Know yourself, define your needs and never be afraid to stumble, to change, and to grow!
I have one request from anyone that has found this series useful. I am wanting to create a printable that will promote your talents and hard work. I would like to put together a list from volunteers that will share how they define their specific niche and how they utilize their efforts to achieve those results in what they write.
To do this I would love a short article of a paragraph or two. Please provide your niche as you define it, what you do to “work” that niche. A photo of your avatar as well as your logo will help. I would use your paragraph as a part of a printable available to others seeking to define their own niche, to discover you and your blog, and to hopefully become a follower and reader of your blog.
In the right hand of my footer you will see a call to action for guest writers. Click on it and follow the prompts, and as a title simply write it is for the Niche Directory. All questions can be entered in the comments below. I would love to make this printable a valuable resource for all bloggers to find and who contribute to be found!
Happy Blogging! Thank you for being a part of this series! As always I recognize how hard you work on your content! Let me help you share it. Please sign up for my weekly newsletter to be notified abut future Blogger Opportunities.
I love your knowledge and how you are so generous with helping others with blogging. Love the whole series.
Thanks Sue. I really enjoyed doing this series. Have a great weekend.
Thank you for sharing at the Thursday Favorite Things blog hop
You are welcome Betty! I am always happy to join.
Love your ideas and I really love that little table. Looking for one that size. Is yours and old one?
Thanks Debbie. I wish that was mine. Unfortunately it is a srock photo. If you fibd it let meknow! Have a great week.
Wow Marilyn, these are such critical and reflective questions every blogger should be asking themselves.
Impact on family… YES!! I had no idea how blog life would impact family life and it’s a constant challenge for me to reign things in and remember that for me, blogging isn’t a job and I’m here for them. For me, they must ALWAYS come first.
Thanks for sharing (and for linking up to the #SHINEbloghop).
Wishing you a lovely day.
xoxo
Thanks for the input Jennifer. It was rhat exact WOW moment for me that got me to write that post. Many times my grown son who lives with me would make comments about how I am living life on my iPad. I ignored it since he is full grown and has a life of his own. It wasn’t until my 6 year old granddaughter crawled on my lap and took my iPad and asked, “grandma, don’t you want to play with me while I m still young?” That I realized just how much I was letting go. Out of the mouths of babes!
Great series Marilyn. It does tend to be a 14 hour a day job especially when you are trying to make a business out of it. I need to work on my schedule so I am not trying to work on a 100 things at once. Trying to continually learn, get better at photography and writing, create recipes and share with social media always seems like there is something that needs to be done. Thanks for sharing with us again at #Throwback Thursday.
Thank you Quinn. I know you will hit your groove soon. Just don’t take two years like I did!
Thank you for giving me something to think about. I don’t think we realized when we started how consuming blogging would be and it’s true, it’s had an effect on our family. So far though I think it’s been net-positive.
Stopping by from the Throwback Thursday Link Party.
Thank you Jane. I am happy to see you recgnized the things that change and are making them into positives. That is so impirtant to do to give you that selfsatisfaction and continue in a positive direction! Thanks for commenting nd have a great day.
Share….Thank you for sharing with us at #JoyHopeLive!
Thank you so much Mary. It is appreciated! Enjoy your day.
I’ve really enjoyed this series – blogging is so addictive so it’s always great to read about what worked (and what didn’t!) for people who have been there and done it. 🙂 #anythinggoes
Thank you Jessica for the kind words and continuing through to the end of the series! I appreciate your comment. Have a great week.
I definitely didn’t realize the impact blogging would have on my life. Half of our family functions come about because I’m researching something or another for my blog. Fortunately, we’ve made some good memories doing it. I really enjoyed this post. Glad I found it through #theleisurelink
Thank you Sarah. I am glad you enjoyed it and you seem to have a good handle on what works for you! Be true to yourself. Have a great week.
I’m just getting started with blogging and there is so much I need to learn. I appreciate your perspective as I have to figure all this out!
Thank you Brenda for commenting
, i hope you spend less time spinning your wheels because of my post. Just one thing to remember: As a blogger, there is always something new to learn. The trick is, deciding if what that is matters to why YOU blg. Happy blogging and have a great week.
These are questions I am having to ask myself now. Just a few months ago when I started my blog, the hubster worked 13hr shifts 5 days a week. Blogging kept me busy and engaged while I was on my own. He has recently got a new job, more money, less hours. I am now finding him being at home is eating into my blogging time……but hang on, that shouldnt be right should it??
I am going to have to sit down and work out a schedule of blogging and hubby time that fits better than what I am doing at the moment.
Thanks for linking up, Tracey xx #abitofeverything
Thanks Tracey! I totally understand and m so glad you do too. We all need to step back and regroup if we want to grow! Good luck! And if you pull back from blogging a bit remember your followers will stick around because they are people just like you. Have a great week.
Good stuff, Marilyn and it’s all oh so true. These questions are things I have been working through in the last few months. Blogging can take over your whole life if you’re not careful. Thanks for linking to #OMHGWW !!
Shellie
http://www.thefabjourney.com
You are ahead of the game Shellie! As long as you take stock once in a while nd are true to yourself you will do great with any decision you make. Thanks for also filling out a form for the directory. I really am excited about other bloggers voices in one spot to guide new and ols bloggers alike!
Marilyn, you are wise beyond words! You saw by my post when you linked my dilemma in keeping the leisure link open. Thank you for linking and your faithful participation! Also, I would like to add my two cents to your request. When do you need (other than ASAP)? 🙂
Terri, thank you. I only have three replies and wuld like at least ten. I have a few more days to share this so anytime over the next few weeks is good. I am looking forward to it!
Fantastic post, and some great advice about areas bloggers need to think about. I went into blogging totally blind, with no idea it would be so time consuming or addictive. Luckily, I have managed to fit it (mostly in place of Netflix and often sleep lol), but I imagine it would be a lot harder for parents in particular.
Thanks for linking up to #AnythingGoes
Debbie
Thanks Debbie for your comments. They are all valid answers and there is n wrong answer when you are true to yourself. Have a great week!
Great tips, Marilyn!
I’ve been doing a stretch because of some studies, but you are so right: there must be balance. Otherwise, one waste time and energy, and generally, get no results.
Thank you so much for your contributions to #tiptuesday.
Thanks Debbie. I am in the process of making better balance in my own life.
Great bottom line! I loved your questions and this post in general. Makes me think harder about what I am trying to accomplish with my blog. I am still defining my niche and working on building an audience. Thanks a bunch for sharing this helpful post!
Thank you so much Emily Rose. I appreciate you leaving such a nice comment. I hope you come back and visit again soon! Have a great week.
I often ponder what I get out of blogging and I think it’s the joy of writing and the friendships I’ve made. Good series.
Maureen those are great things to have as rewards of bloggng. You do a great job and if you ever are overwhelmed you don’t let that show. Keep up the great work. I love to visit your blog.
Hello Marilyn,
Thank you for this wonderful checklist! I love all 10 questions. I am going to get a copy of this to my mother who is considering starting a blog herself. I want to encourage her while making her aware of all that goes into producing a blog. Thabks again for sharing this great information!
Good to meet you Horace and welcome to Marilyn’s Treats. I am honored you found my checklist worthy to share with your mom. I hope she does start a blog. Blogging makes my retirement fruitful and I love the people I meet. I signed up for your email. I love how easy your blog flows, the colors, and the topics you write about. I would like to invite you to join #AnythingGoes to share some of those great ideas. You fit right in with my readers and offer a unique perspective. It runs Sunday evening thru Thursday evening every week.
[ Smiles ] Yes, it is all about balance.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom!
Thank you Renard. It is a word we need to use in our lives more often!
A great series Marilyn with invaluable information. I think this is the hardest of all – not letting blogging take over your life! Some really great tips here and I look forward to your printable. Thanks for sharing at #WednesdaysWisdom.
Thank you Sue. It is important to take stock and keep on top of your priorites, isn’t it?
Thanks for sharing your insight and experience. I had no idea how much time blogging would take when I first started. Since my son is young, I usually only work on my blog while he is sleeping which isn’t a whole lot. You are right, it certainly affects those around us as well.
Thanks Emily for sharing your situation. It sounds like you have a handle on it and that is wonderful! You are doing great.
Hello! I have been blogging for 4 months and I’m at it like a full-time job. I need to work on letting some blog stuff go in order to balance my family life with 4 kiddos! Thank you for the needed reminder today (as I read blogs lol).
You are welcome Valerie. It is o easy to fall into the trap of wanting a COMPLETE blog right away. In my first 18 months of blogging I put up 700 recipes. I realized that most people only read blogs other than favorites a few hours a week. I had put out most of my recipes and now those are so hidden inside my blg most can’t be found. Once you realize that, slowing down is easier! Good luck. And of course, read my blog everyday! jK!
You always write the best posts for new bloggers! 🙂
Thanks for joining Cooking and Crafting with J & J!
Thanks Jess. I read all your tutorials when I was starting out!
Thanks so much Marilyn for sharing this blog info with us at Cooking and Crafting with J & J.
We can’t wait to see what you will share with us next week!
Thanks Julie. I love your party!
Hi just dropped by to check things out and say Hi can’t stop have to go and wake up as sick little boy asleep on the bathroom floor and go and get another little boy from school, but I was here and I will drop by again
Thanks Jo-Anne for taking a minute out if your busy day to visit. Hope the kids are better today. I look forward to seeing you soon.